transitioningMarch 17, 2007
Are you roleplaying a cuckold fetish or are you living a cuckold lifestyle?
What is required of the cuckold in terms of attitude, demeanor, actions? Are they suppose to be submissive qualities?
In our day to day life hubby and I live as equals but since truly “exploring” cuckold kink I’ve found that it’s easy to carry over to real life. With protocols in place other people don’t even notice or have to know. That and it’s easier for me to add denial to roleplay since I have a much lower sex drive. I can turn him down with some debasing words and it works out where I don’t have to have sex and he’s still getting a fulfillment of eroticism. Neat eh?
That being said I don’t want a submissive man all the time. Sex isn’t always about fulfilling kinky desires or physical release but about delving into our emotional ties and strengthening them. it’s an incredibly intimate act that has emotional, spiritual and physical ramifications.
So how do you separate the cuckold fetish/lifestyle, with the times you want to enjoy the time spent with your partner in sexual intimacy? As equals?
It’s a bit of a mind fuck (excuse the pun)…