Why did the monkey throw the clock out of the window?June 6, 2007
I can’t believe it’s been a whole month since I last posted, well, yes, I can believe, in a way it seems like forever.
Everyone has always heard the warnings that once married your sex life decreases dramatically. I was so sure I would easily dodge that bullet for a number of reasons: I enjoy my sex life, I enjoy bucking “the trend” and I don’t like to be too predictable.
But there you have it, last month I realized life had gotten ahead of my libido and I found myself too tired at the end of a long day and too ashamed of my body since I’ve put on copious amounts of weight.
Embarrassment of my body+not much free time=no sex with other men
I keep reassuring Hubby that I haven’t forgotten about this kink of ours and that it *will* happen again, I just can’t promise when it will be.
I’m not one to become intimate with someone just to check an item off my “to-do” list….
It’s a strange response I’ve found myself with, when I’m overwhelmed with projects and deadlines any kink that involves power play ceases to interest me. I lose my desire to “put Hubby in his place” as well as any I might have had to have a nice, sound spanking myself. I’m sure Freud would have something to say about that 😉