MenJanuary 26, 2008
Finding my own set of beliefs and boundaries around cuckolding hasn’t been the biggest obstacle in the course of exploring this kink, it’s been finding willing men.
Not many men understand how cuckolding can be sexy and those that do understand still don’t want to make that leap of participating.
Some for reasons of ego, others out of respect and most because it just doesn’t work for them.
And of those men who are ready, willing and able to play “the bull” in our scenerio most of them want to dominate me as well as hubby which isn’t my cup of tea no matter how much sugar you put in it.
So how does one go about finding that specific man who wants to perform in front of another man with his wife and isn’t hung up on taking on any power exchange roles?
Swingers parties for sure, online, through friends…
Now we’re getting down to the nitty gritty, we know what we want, we know ways we can find them, except…
I *abhor* meeting people online, I don’t want to sleep with my friends (I don’t recommend fishing in your own pond) and swingers parties in our area of the world aren’t too many.
We’ve been lucky so far coasting by on luck and circumstance but have yet to find that one man to fulfill both our fantasies, the one that will wrestle with me in bed while my hubby is in the same room.
I think organizing a quarterly meet in our town would be a good idea to network and get a feel of who’s out there and what they are looking for.
Wish me Luck!!