InclusionDecember 11, 2008
I involve DH into the sex life I have with other men by bringing home stories but I do not involve the men I see in the intimacy I have with my husband.
And here’s why; I can humiliate him, I can call him names, harass him, withhold sex and remind him of his “place” because I know, and he knows, that it is fantasy.
I do not want to take that chance that the other man won’t see it that way.
Especially not a “bull” as I find the traditional type pompous and overbearing and I am too protective of my DH to subject him to an egotistical ass who’s in it for the glory. It is a privilege to be a part of someone’s kink dynamic that requires trust and respect.
I also don’t want to run the risk of the “bull” (I use quotation marks because in all fairness, the term should apply to me) ignoring him all together.
As easy as it is to find men to date/sleep with, even with them knowing I’m married, it’s hard to find ones well-versed in cuckolding that I trust enough to bring home to hubby.
Cuckolding is edge play and not for the weak, undecided or uninitiated.