MixologyJanuary 5, 2009
As with all kinks you can choose to either keep it in the bedroom or live it as a lifestyle.
Our Cuckolding is somewhere in-between as it is a pretty predominant part of our sex life and our sex life is a predominant part of our relationship.
That being said, outside of the “bedroom” we practice egalitarianism and if it differs than it is usually DH that will make the decisions.
As noted, sex infuses a large part of our life together and has never been contained between just the two of us. Of course we went through the oft-advised steps of creating a secure, loving trusting relationship first with a strong base of communication and acceptance. After that it was whatever felt right, and good.
It was DH’s idea to sit on the sidelines and it was my idea to be in complete control. Ta-da, cuckolding!
I recently contacted the “first” to get together again as a one-off. I am sure it will be rather interesting since the last time we played together I was still “getting my sea legs” as it where. I’ve far surpassed the experimental stage and have become rather ingrained in my ways. It has threatened to get me in trouble in the past as I find it way to easy to remark on someone’s “manhood” disparagingly and as you can imagine there are quite a few men out there who would not find that arousing 🙂
Next weekend DH is taking me lingerie shopping for a new bra (who needs panties??) and maybe some stockings, for my date and I’ll be kind in return by locking him up for the night. (It is kind as it relieves him of the self-discipline to stop from playing with himself.)