Mail Bag: Should I take care of the baby?March 27, 2012
This is one of the many emails we get. Thought I would comment on it.
Hi yeah, I frequently get the urge to get cheated on. Impregnation is one of my better fetishes involving this, but humiliation and submissiveness also come in. Is this normal? should I allow a partner to become pregnant then make me care for the baby? Should I? Please and thank you.
Tylor, I don’t think any one should play sexual games where the outcome involves having a child as part of the turn on. This is best left as fantasy. It’s it normal? I think a lot of men have this very same fantasy. It’s OK to leave it as such.
Let’s be clear…
Males have been helping their wives raise the offspring of other males the world over since the beginning of time. It wasn’t until genetic testing discovered how frequently this take place that people started paying attention and writing about it. Is there a piece missing in the great book of sexual psychology? Maybe. Perhaps the beta and alpha male theory involves the role each take in the cycle of life.
I for one will always take responsibility for the life created between my wife and I no matter where the sperm came from. That’s who I am.