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November 12, 2013

I’m searching for ways in which to express intimacy, as a couple are want to do, within a cuckolding relationship. 
I find great need in the physical connection of sex, fucking especially. Sharing and allowing access of our physical selves with another person who on the same level solidifies a “partnership”, to me at least. 

I will be honest, the lack of physical equality with my husband is one of the two biggest stumbling blocks I encounter in cuckolding and there have been times I have felt a distance that radiates into all part of our life together. 

There are a few options I can see; to refocus the intimacy elsewhere or to have “time out” periods.
As hubby’s sexuality plays out in his head mostly I fear that “time out” option would be too jarring, therefore I’m looking for help in finding the intimacy I crave in other ways.

I have found, through various other blogs, that some cuckoldresses will “allow” sex, say, anal sex, so as to be “practiced” for her bull. Another imaginative escapade is for her cuck to provide himself as a helper in order for her to be photographed in suggestive ways to send to her bull. 

Of course there is always the good ol’ fashioned oral sex, face sitting and pussy servicing. This is not my favourite activity so poor hubby isn’t utilized nearly as often as he would love to be. 

Do you, faithful followers, internet-land inhabitants, have any other suggestions? Commiserations? Stories?

Until then, 



Post Secret

August 16, 2010

This came out of the Sunday Secret’s post today and I had to chuckle.

My husband is a lucky man.


We are normal, We just like some kink once in a while

January 24, 2009

Pearl’s latest post states, “… sometimes I wonder why it is that DH would rather see me having sex with someone else than have sex with me himself?”

I wonder if more cuckolding wives feel this way? Maybe the above statement feels that way to my Pearl but it’s not accurate from my point of view. I love making love to Pearl whether it be with her wearing a strap-on like we did last night or me being her cowboy and holding her down, wrestling for control. It’s my yearning for Pearl and my desire for her that makes it real when she chooses with her free will to be with another. It just wouldn’t be cuckolding if it was any other way.

I don’t feel I urged Pearl to be a cuckolding wife. It’s not the way I remember it coming to be. Maybe I can explain and she can correct me if I am wrong.

I am against having a boring homogenized sex life – with anyone. I think Pearl and I both agree on that. Because we don’t partake in the mundane, the mundane becomes exciting when we do it. It’s all exciting because there is always a huge variety. Sex with Pearl is like a box of chocolates….and you know the rest of that saying. Everything is exciting with Pearl, she is anything but mundane in all aspects of her life.

When we first started dating Pearl gave me a video of her and her ex having sex. This isn’t something a new girlfriend normally does is it? How about the pictures of her sucking cock in a photo booth? I won’t get started with the stories and adventures of her past she freely told me about. It was a huge turn on for me to be with someone so open in this way. If I had demanded a closed monogamous relationship with her I would be  squashing her seemingly natural open hedonistic personality and it really seemed to be who she was.

The idea of an open relationship was never contemplated because although Pearl liked being free to be, she was insanely jealous of me being with other women. I know without a doubt that had I given her video or pic’s of me having sex with my ex the reaction would not be the same as the one I had. The idea of me being with someone else was not something to contemplate, (unless it was a man). I was not jealous of her being free to be with others and told her so but she was worried that “the other shoe would drop” and I would change my mind using her infidelities as an excuse to be with others myself. So she always approached the possibility of sexual liaisons with others very tentatively.

It wasn’t until later that I discovered the term “Cuckold”. It was an “Ah ha!” moment because it put everything in it’s place. It wasn’t swinging or poly. It was cuckolding which specificly is a man who’s wife has sex with other men.  All I feel I did was put a name to what we were already sort of doing. Maybe I shouldn’t have done that. I was looking for other men in my position by Googling something like “my wife has a lover” and I found some archaic chat space that soon turned into I figured that with both of us preferring a kinky sex life is was perfect for us and it would be good to be involved finding others and learning more.

Pearl is free to take another man anytime she desires while I remain faithful. That is it. Anything else is added kinkness. I love her for a whole bunch of other reasons that have nothing to do with cuckolding or sex.


..and I’m still in chastity

January 12, 2009

Lock me up for the night my ass. That’s what she wrote in her last post. I have witnesses here! Well, I’m still in the CB3000 as I write this. Who’s with me?

I’m not sure how many women read our blog but this post is really for you. I am in chastity. Really. You know what I did today? I cleaned up the house and looked after our son while she went out to see “M” one of her dates. All the while she felt close to me knowing she wanted me wearing this chastity.

Yesterday she straddled my face until she had enough and then made me watch her masturbate to orgasm. Even though I never got to orgasm, the satisfaction was mutual and I was able to reciprocate her need to cuddle after and watch a TV show with her on the couch arm in arm under a shared comfy blanket.

The night before I entertained an out of town guest, (more on that later I suspect), while she was upstairs in our room having her way with an extremely well endowed friend of ours. I am madly, deeply in love with my Pearl. She is my world and I am so happy I am open to offering her the world of guilt free sexual gratification as well as being a partner that does his share around the house. Don’t get me wrong, she does a lot of house keeping and parenting too. And no, she’s not a slut and if you think she is, then we’ll reclaim the word and call ourselves ethical sluts, (thank you Dossie Easton).

The truth is, The CB3000 chastity device is easy and comfortable to wear. I can’t speak for all but in my case I feel a lot closer to Pearl when she has me in it. It’s true what many say about being more attentive to the woman and happy to see their needs met.

I have talked on many forums to many different men who would love to be in chastity for their wives/girlfriends but are afraid to ask. I have read and discussed with even more who are single and wear the device already. So for the women out there thinking this is sick and twisted, drop that notion and think again because this can really be all about you. In fact the entire cuckolding fetish is for you. It’s odd more women don’t come up with the idea on their own.


A Cuckold Christmas joke

December 28, 2008

Why is Christmas a Cuckolds favourite time of year?

Because he can get away with saying “big things come in small packages”


Friday Night

August 18, 2007

I made a date with S tonight and forgot to tell hubby until last night *oops*

It’s always nice to give advance notice so that he can think about his position all the more longer.
I had originally meant to lend him out for service to another woman with a list of duties to preform and report back about but I think that will  have to wait for next time.

This time he has to help me get dressed, drive me there and not touch himself all evening while I’m gone, without the aid of the CB300  🙂



Big Cock on Craigslist

April 17, 2007

Sometimes Pearl sends me ads from the casual encounter section of Craigslist that she’s interested in. It’s a really big turn on for me especially if the ad has an image of the advertiser’s really big cock attached. Sometimes I look in the m4w section and send a few to her too.

I’m not sure if she is responding to any or just reminding me she is looking. In the past we have had some pretty good luck with CL.